The Prophet Samuel had just anointed Saul as the first King of the Nation of Israel. You can follow this story in the First Book of Samuel Chapter Ten found in the Old Testament.
Samuel introduces Saul to the people (24). He then outlines the role of the King (25). After these two actions, he sends the folks home.
Saul then returns to his home. On his return we read these words (26-27):
“When Saul returned to his home at Gibeah, a band of men whose hearts the Lord had touched became his constant companions. There were, however, some bums and loafers who exclaimed, ‘How can this man save us?’ And they despised him and refused to bring him presents, but he took no notice.”
In these verses we learn quickly two things about leaders. There are some who support you and some who don’t. It is the leader who must choose to which group she will listen.
When it came to Saul, he ignored those who criticized and despised him. “But he took no notice.” That is a great strategy for a leader to adopt when being confronted with those who are not supportive of their leadership.
Everyone is not going to like you. If it is 100% acceptance you are looking for, then don’t lead.
I read on twitter a statement attributed to the University of Alabama Head Football Coach Nick Saban. “If you want to make everyone happy, don’t be a leader; sell ice cream.”
I do have to insert here, selling ice cream may not make everyone happy either. When I was working on my undergraduate degree I worked for Baskin-Robbins. We had 31 flavors and often people weren’t happy because we didn’t have their flavor. But I digress.
Whom you choose to ignore can be as life-giving as those you choose to listen to. I recommend you ignore the following:
People who don’t have your best interest in mind
People who may benefit from your failure
Unhappy people
Nitpickers
Grumps
Idiots
Non risk-takers
Protectors of the status quo
People who won’t speak honestly
The constant critic
Some may tell you that ignoring others is a detriment. I disagree. Ignoring everybody would be detrimental. You need to wade through the noise and choose wisely to whom you will listen, and whom you will ignore.